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Wash. moves step closer to legalizing gay marriage
The last time same-sex marriage was debated in the state Capitol, the Legislature's sole gay lawmaker watched as his colleagues passed the state's version of the Defense of Marriage Act in 1998 banning gay marriage. Fourteen years after that "lonely moment," Sen. Ed Murray......
Washington state lawmakers pass gay marriage bill
Washington state lawmakers voted to approve gay marriage Wednesday, setting the stage for the state to become the seventh in the nation to allow same-sex couples to wed. The action comes a day after a federal appeals court declared California's ban on gay marriag......
Washington state lawmakers pass gay marriage bill
Washington state lawmakers voted to approve gay marriage Wednesday, setting the stage for the state to become the seventh in the nation to allow same-sex couples to wed. The action comes a day after a federal appeals court declared California's ban on gay marriag......
Experts: Marriage ban's path to high court unclear
Conservative critics like to point out that the federal appeals court that just declared California's same-sex marriage ban to be unconstitutional has its decisions overturned by the U.S. Supreme Court more often than other judicial circuits, a record that could prove predictive if ......
Romney intensifies fight for social conservatives
Republican presidential candidate Mitt Romney shifted his focus from the economy to abortion, religious freedom and gay marriage in recent days, part of an intensified effort to win over social conservatives in states voting Tuesday. It didn't work. ......
Appeals court throws out same-sex marriage ban
Same-sex marriage moved one step closer to the Supreme Court on Tuesday when a federal appeals court ruled California's ban unconstitutional, saying it serves no purpose other than to "lessen the status and human dignity" of gays. A three-judge panel of......
Reaction to the ruling on Calif's gay marriage ban
A look at reaction to the ruling by a 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals panel declaring California's same-sex marriage ban unconstitutional: -- "When Proposition 8 doesn't allow parents like mine to marry, it isn't just defining their love as taboo or wrong.......
Excerpts from ruling on Calif's gay marriage ban
The following are excerpts from the ruling Tuesday by a three-judge panel of the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals declaring California's same-sex marriage ban to be unconstitutional: -- "Although the Constitution permits communities to enact most laws they ......
Ruling near on California same-sex marriage ban
A federal appeals court plans to announce whether it thinks California's same-sex marriage ban violates the civil rights of gays and lesbians, and if the trial judge who struck down the voter-approved measure should have revealed he was in a long-term relationship with another man....
Judge allows 'Sister Wives' suit to proceed
A federal judge has ruled there's sufficient evidence to allow a polygamous family made famous by a reality TV show to pursue a lawsuit challenging the constitutionality of Utah's bigamy law. U.S. District Judge Clark Waddoups on Friday dismissed Utah's governor ......
Erie mayor prematurely named 'same-sex' supporter
Erie Mayor Joe Sinnott was listed on a website as supporting a national lobbying effort to legalize same-sex marriage even though he hasn't signed onto the effort. Sinnott's assistant, Laura Schaaf, says someone entered his name on the Mayors for the Freedom to M......
Court won't release CA gay marriage trial videos
A federal appeals court refused Thursday to unseal video recordings of a landmark trial on the constitutionality of California's same-sex marriage ban but said it needed more time to decide if a lower court judge properly struck down the voter-approved ban. Sidin......
WA Senate approves bill to legalize gay marriage
The Washington state Senate has passed a bill to legalize same-sex marriage, bringing the state a step closer to becoming the seventh to allow lesbian and gay couples to wed. But the threat of a ballot challenge looms. The packed public galleries burst into appla......
WA Senate approves bill to legalize gay marriage
The Washington state Senate passed a bill Wednesday night that would legalize same-sex marriage, setting the stage for the state to become the seventh to allow gay and lesbian couples to wed. The measure now heads to the House, which is expected to approve it and......
NJ GOP governor apologizes for civil rights remark
Gov. Chris Christie has apologized for a remark he made about civil rights but says he's not sorry for using a slang term to describe a lawmaker who compared him to segregationist Southern governors. Christie, a Republican, spoke Tuesday night during TownSquare M......
Key Washington state gay marriage vote Wednesday
The state Senate is set to vote on a measure to legalize gay marriage in Washington state. The Senate Rules Committee voted Tuesday to move the bill to a Wednesday floor vote after Lt. Gov. Brad Owen, president of the Senate, pulled the bill for advancement. ......
NJ gov fires a zinger in feud over gay marriage
The verbal feud over gay marriage in New Jersey got more personal Monday with Gov. Chris Christie firing a slang term at a lawmaker, and a hero of the Civil Rights movement chastising the governor for a separate remark. Christie called openly gay Assemblyman Reed......
Maine poised for 2nd public vote on gay marriage
Gay rights activists in Maine, the only New England state that doesn't allow gay marriage or civil unions, moved Thursday toward forcing a second statewide vote on the marriage question, and their opponents say they'll be ready for a fight. EqualityMaine, the Ame......
Black NJ leaders: No public vote on civil rights
Two of New Jersey's most influential black leaders blasted Gov. Chris Christie on Wednesday for proposing gay marriage be put to a popular vote in November, but the Republican governor insisted he's offering a reasonable compromise amid his personal opposition to same-sex nuptials....
Black NJ leaders: No public vote on civil rights
Two of New Jersey's most influential black leaders are blasting Gov. Chris Christie for wanting to put gay marriage up for a popular vote. Assembly Speaker Sheila Oliver and Newark Mayor Cory Booker say civil rights are guaranteed by the Constitution and don't be......
Gay marriage returns to the political spotlight
With a flurry of coast-to-coast developments this week, same-sex marriage is back in the political spotlight and likely to remain there through Election Day as a half-dozen states face potentially wrenching votes on the issue. In Maryland, New Jersey and Washingt......
Gay marriage returns to the political spotlight
With a flurry of coast-to-coast developments this week, same-sex marriage is back in the political spotlight and likely to remain there through Election Day as a half-dozen states face potentially wrenching votes on the issue. In Maryland, New Jersey and Washingt......
NJ Dems firm on gay marriage despite veto threat
Republican Gov. Chris Christie vowed Tuesday to veto a gay marriage bill under consideration in the Legislature, upending Democrats' plans to revive a measure that failed two years ago and attempting to force lawmakers to put the issue on the ballot instead. Rece......
NJ gov says he'd veto gay marriage bill
New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie says he will veto a gay marriage bill if it reaches his desk, but he supports putting the issue on the ballot. The first-term Republican says he wants to see a constitutional amendment come up for a vote and encourages GOP lawmakers......
NJ gov picks gay black man, Asian for top court
Gov. Chris Christie moved to diversify the state's all-white Supreme Court on Monday with two firsts: the nominations of an openly gay black man and a Korean-born prosecutor to fill two vacancies. If confirmed, Bruce A. Harris would become New Jersey's first open......
Wash. has enough votes to legalize gay marriage
As lawmakers held their first public hearing on legalizing same-sex marriage, a previously undecided Democratic senator on Monday announced her support for the measure, all but ensuring that Washington will become the seventh state to allow gay and lesbian couples to get married....
Positions of the Republican candidates, in brief
A look at where the 2012 Republican presidential candidates stand on a selection of issues. They are former House Speaker Newt Gingrich, Texas Rep. Ron Paul, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney and former Pennsylvania Sen. Rick Santorum. ......
Republican candidates on the issues
Here's where the 2012 Republican presidential candidates stand on a selection of issues. They are former House Speaker Newt Gingrich, Texas Rep. Ron Paul, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney and former Pennsylvania Sen. Rick Santorum. ......
Republican presidential candidates on the issues
Here's where the 2012 Republican presidential candidates stand on a selection of issues. They are former House Speaker Newt Gingrich, Texas Rep. Ron Paul, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney and former Pennsylvania Sen. Rick Santorum. ABORTI......
Navratilova holds court at Australian Open
Martina Navratilova never shirked a challenge in her glittering tennis career, and she isn't shy about giving an opinion either. The winner of 167 singles titles and one of the greatest players faced a news conference at the Australian Open on Monday and addresse......
Money matters: Newlyweds need to address finances, not just romance
The vows have been said, promises been made, but has everything really been discussed? One of the most common things that is overlooked in pre-marriage discussions is money, according to relationship counselor Jeannie Peters of Lancaster. "They talk about it, but sometimes don't r......
Gay marriage gaining momentum in WA Legislature
The last time same-sex marriage was debated in the Washington state Legislature, lawmakers voted to ban it. Fourteen years later, the issue is before the Legislature once again after a multiyear effort that has incrementally increased rights to gay and lesbian couples in the state....
Polygamist sect advertising leaders' revelations
Faithful followers of imprisoned polygamist sect leader Warren Jeffs are making his apocalyptic writings available to the public through advertisements placed in newspapers nationwide. The ads appear in Friday editions of The Washington Post, The New York Times, ......
Gingrich angrily denies he sought open marriage
Presidential contender Newt Gingrich on Thursday angrily denied that he asked his second wife for an "open marriage" that would allow him to have a mistress as she claims in an interview broadcast two days before the South Carolina primary. "Let me......
Gingrich denies asking wife for an 'open marriage'
Newt Gingrich is denying that he ever asked his ex-wife for an open marriage and is angrily denouncing the moderator of Thursday night's Republican debate for raising the issue. Gingrich blasted what he called the "destructive, vicious, negative nature of mu......
70-plus mayors join in support of gay marriage
Mayors of more than 70 cities are joining forces to support gay marriage. The mayors of Boston, Houston, Los Angeles, New York and San Diego will co-chair the Mayors for the Freedom to Marry group being formally launched Friday at the U.S. Conference of Mayors in......
Pope hits out at 'radical secularism'
Pope Benedict XVI says Roman Catholics in the U.S. need to understand the "grave threats" to their faith posed by what he calls radical secularism in the political and cultural arenas. He addressed visiting U.S. bishops Thursday and used the same langua......
Israel seeks to end ancient African Jewish custom
Israel is closing the books on a rare millennia-old Jewish tradition. Nearly three decades after Israel began airlifting Ethiopia's ancient Jewish community out of the Horn of Africa, Israel's rabbis are now working to phase out the community's white-turbaned cle......
Stars help George Clooney in gay marriage play '8'
A star-studded group of A-listers will help George Clooney perform in the Los Angeles premiere of the gay marriage play "8." The groups Broadway Impact and American Foundation for Equal Rights say Jamie Lee Curtis, Martin Sheen, Yeardley Smith, George T......
Republican candidates on the issues
Here's where the 2012 Republican presidential candidates stand on a selection of issues. They are former House Speaker Newt Gingrich, Texas Rep. Ron Paul, Texas Gov. Rick Perry, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney and former Pennsylvania Sen. Rick Santorum.......
Positions of the Republican candidates, in brief
A look at where the 2012 Republican presidential candidates stand on a selection of issues. They are former House Speaker Newt Gingrich, Texas Rep. Ron Paul, Texas Gov. Rick Perry, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney and former Pennsylvania Sen. Rick Santorum....
Republican presidential candidates on the issues
Here's where the 2012 Republican presidential candidates stand on a selection of issues. They are former House Speaker Newt Gingrich, Texas Rep. Ron Paul, Texas Gov. Rick Perry, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney and former Pennsylvania Sen. Rick Santorum.......
Gay marriage play '8' goes national during 2012
For anyone who missed the star-studded, one-night-only Broadway debut of the gay marriage play "8" or can't get to Los Angeles this spring to see George Clooney lead a West Coast version, there's hope: The play is coming to a theater near you. The only ......
More US Catholics take complaints to church court
Parents upset by the admission policy at a parochial school. Clergy and parishioners at odds over use of their building. A priest resisting a transfer to another parish. It was once assumed that disagreements like these in the Roman Catholic Church would end one ......
Imprisoned Jeffs imposes change on polygamous sect
Polygamist sect leader Warren Jeffs may be serving a life-plus-20-year sentence in a Texas prison, but his grip on most of his 10,000 followers doesn't appear to be lessening and some former insiders say he's imposing even more rigid requirements that are roiling the church and spli......
Court's comments stir controversy at Aussie Open
Nearly 40 years after she won the last of her 11 Australian Open singles titles, Margaret Court is back in the news at Melbourne Park for her opposition to gay marriage. Her stance has spurred the creation of a Facebook group, "Rainbow Flags Over Margaret Co......
Mormons see mainstream acceptance ahead for church
Mormons and white evangelicals share an intense commitment to family life, prayer, the Bible and conservative politics, including support for the Republican Party and smaller government, according to a new study released Thursday. But the two groups strongly hold divergent religious......
Elections official resigns over gay marriage ban
The elections director in socially conservative Harnett County has resigned, saying she could not in good conscience preside over the upcoming vote on a proposed amendment to the state constitution banning same-sex marriage. Sherre Toler says her romantic relatio......
Prison halts polygamist leader's calls for 90 days
Texas corrections officials have decided that imprisoned polygamist sect leader Warren Jeffs will be without phone privileges for 90 days as punishment for making calls that were put on speakerphone -- presumably so he could preach to his followers Department of ......
Daddy day care
  Fifteen-month-old Mab clings to her father, Andy Long, as the two enter the play area of Gymboree Play & Music in Manheim Township. Mab — whose name is Welsh, and is that of a mythical fairy queen, according to her dad — is a sprite in a little pink Phillies ca......
Bending gender to our will
You thought it was impossible. You thought it couldn't be done. But folks, I'm here to tell you it is possible and it can be done. Nothing less than world peace. In two simple steps. Pay close attention. Here we go.

Step 1: Men, you nee......
Religion Calendar: Week beginning Dec. 31
CONCERT
• Marie Barlow and Gordy Martin will perform in concert at NewSong Fellowship Church, 609 Prospect St., at 10 a.m. Sunday. For more information, contact 393-9600 or info@newsongfellowship.net.
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Business and pleasure
Love and marriage may go together like a horse and carriage, but what happens when you hitch a business to that carriage? For spouses who own and run companies together — and spend much of the day in close proximity — vital elements of their business strategy include dividing res......
Living but not present
For 13 years, Gary and Tina Bellanca had been carving out a life for themselves that depended on supporting each other in every way — physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually. From running their own marketing agency, LMI Advertising, to running side by side in marathons,......
Premarital counseling: An important first step in a life together
Divorce is no respecter of faith. According to the Rev. Jamie Mitchell of NewSong Fellowship Church, the divorce rate among Christians is about the same -- close to 50 percent -- for both evangelicals and mainliners. In a random survey of five other pastors, ranging from conservat......
Pastor makes counseling a vital part of preparing couples for marriage
Ryan and Brooke Martin credit their strong marriage to the skills they learned in premarital counseling at NewSong Fellowship Church. The Rev. Jamie Mitchell, who married the couple at the Prospect Street church five years ago this month, believes, among all of the wedding preparations, c......
Marryin' kind
  When he was younger, Jason Stark figured he'd be married with children at this point in his life. The 32-year-old East Lampeter Township resident, who works in construction, said he still would like to have a family someday, but he's fine with how things are. "I don't hav......
Internet infidelity?
  When U.S. Rep. Anthony Weiner confessed to sending lewd photographs and messages to women other than his wife, he not only set off a barrage of late-night jokes. He sparked a debate over what constitutes infidelity in a world transformed by the Internet. With more people ......
Conductor recovers her passion for music, works to instill it in others
Vera Volchansky, who is conducting the Millersville University Orchestra in concert Friday, almost became a politician. Despite years of playing the violin in her native Russia (she emigrated to the United States when she was 12), she started taking prelaw classes in college. When......
Promises renewed
  They stood face to face Saturday night, more than 200 strong. Some had been together a mere four months. Others were entering their sixth decade at each other's side, through good times and bad. But they all were gathered for the same purpose: to pledge their love for one......
'Forcible' rape stirs firestorm
Congressman weighs in The No Taxpayer Funding for Abortion Act, which is co-sponsored by U.S. Rep. Joe Pitts, seems to be a pretty straightforward piece of legislation. That is, until you get to the 724th word of the 1,248-word bill. Forcible. Tha......
Local war brides from Europe recall first arrival in America
Storm-tossed and tired, radiant with anticipation, the first group of 'British Brides' reached New York today," enthused the front page of the Lancaster New Era on Feb. 4, 1946. That day, 65 years ago, marked the first arrival of the largest single group of female immigrants in U. S. hist......
Tips: Best bets for the week
Mad Marriage ... Monday Feel like diving into the black abyss of human misery? Christopher Durang took the plunge and ended up with "The Marriage of Bette and Boo," a dark comedy being staged as a reading Monday night by the Ephrata Performing Arts Company. The show holds nothing back, ex......
Love is in the air
Maybe there is value to text-messaging in a car — as long as you're not driving. Lance Kurtz and Justine Bright are believers. Kurtz, 25, a 2003 Ephrata High School graduate, and Bright, 21, of Zimmerman, Minn., were married Saturday at Grace Evangelical Congregational Church i......
'Marriage' takes a light approach to some heavy issues
Jim Munro can tell you how many tiles are on the ceilings of a number of theaters. It's not that the local actor/director/playwright has a fetish, understand. It's just that, as an audience member, often he finds himself, well, drifting during a performance. "I'm sitting i......
D-i-v-o-r-c-e is contagious?
Mary said she grew up believing that marriage was forever. But when her husband went off to find himself, he discovered a network of friends who supported any choice that brought personal happiness. And Mary, who asked that her real name not be used, eventually found herself divorced. S......
Everlasting love
More than 50 years ago, one by one, the six Breneman siblings left the family farm in Mount Joy and got hitched, tying marital knots never meant to fray.Fast forward through a whirlwind world, as matrimony began to lose its longevity and luster, and divorce became a more acceptable, but no......
Orchestra suits up for an elegant evening of Mozart
"Everything he wrote was just beautiful."There aren't many people who would disagree with Stephen Gunzenhauser's appraisal of Mozart, who is the featured composer at this weekend's Lancaster Symphony Orchestra concert, "Absolutely Mozart."Four pieces ......
Promise Players take a lighthearted look at marital messes
Ask anyone who is married and most will agree that marriage isn't always easy.Fortunately, there is a bright side — perhaps even a funny side — to marriage, as shown in this season's Promise Players performance of "How To Make the Mrs. Happy.""Ever......
When a diamond doesn't mean forever
Lancaster Realtor Carole Kirchner couldn't close this deal quickly enough.After her divorce, she wasted no time in selling her wedding rings to a gold buyer.Her ¼-karat engagement ring was worth some $2,000. She got around $200.But money wasn't the object....
CORE beliefs
A local pastor who directs a Lutheran reform group said the organization is very disappointed in the decision Friday by the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America to allow noncelibate gay clergy. At its national assembly in Minneapolis on Friday, the ELCA lifted a ban on sexually active, monoga......
Finally, a bill that would make our lawmakers pay
For all the huffing and puffing from our state lawmakers during the budget stalemate, Rep. Ron Marsico doesn't see any action to back up the bluster."Look where we are today: no budget in site," said the Dauphin County Republican. "They're not even m......
What happens when one spouse comes out of the closet and moves on
When people ask Susan Grayson why her marriage ended, she hesitates.Not because she doesn't know, but because she wonders how she can make others understand something that she fully doesn't understand herself.After 14 years, her marriage ended because her husband admitted al......
TALKING POINTS: Avoid Splitsville
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Legalize gay marriage?
A unanimous Iowa Supreme Court legalized gay marriage April 3. Four days later, the Vermont legislature overrode a gubernatorial veto, thus allowing same-sex marriage in that state.   Prior to those rulings, gay and lesbian couples could legally wed in Massachusetts and Connecticut. N......
TALKING POINTS: Gay marriage?
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Will man put asunder what Iowa court decided?
Gays and lesbians in Iowa might want to brace themselves for the backlash.While all seven justices of Iowa's Supreme Court joined Friday in ending the Hawkeye State's 11-year ban on same-sex marriage, a strong majority of Iowans sees things differently.A Des Moines Register ......
SMART REMARKS: Bristol Palin is right
Sunday News columnist Gil Smart on Bristol Palin's interview with Fox News' Greta van Susteren.  In the interview, Palin tells Van Susteren that abstinence just "isn't realistic" and that premarital sex is now more commonly accepted among "kids her age."...
Hooray for love
Here came the brides. One by one, the four women were escorted by their grooms under an arch covered with silk foliage, white tiger lilies and starflowers. A pianist played a subtle, classy version of the wedding march as they traveled the red carpet aisle. It wasn't the first time the coup......
What a paw-posal!
Jenna Sherick was hoping for a Boston terrier when she entered the Humane League of Lancaster County Saturday afternoon. Instead, she got a Valentine's Day diamond and marriage proposal from boyfriend Patrick Quinn. Both are league supporters. Patrick was waiting for Jenna in a kennel,......
As marriage evolves, so does pastors' advice
The role of clergy in counseling engaged couples is more complex in today's society than it was just a decade or two ago.Pastors have to deal with such issues as a rise in the average marriage age, more couples cohabiting before marriage, more couples with children born out of wedlock ......
LOVE LESSONS
The question is explored in literature, in music, in holy texts, in our not-so-holy pop culture: What is love? There are countless definitions. "Love is the answer," sang John Lennon — not that helpfully, really. Love is "temporary insanity, curable by marriage,&q......
SMART REMARKS: Gays, The Final Frontier
Sunday News columnist Gil Smart reacts to Newsweek's article arguing the religious case for gay marriage....
SMART REMARKS: Pink Hitlers?
Sunday News columnist Gil Smart takes on the Proposition 8 controversy in this week's video edition of "Smart Remarks." ......
Frugal nuptials
Brides in central Pennsylvania are skipping the ceremony programs, having Sunday weddings and making their own favors, in an attempt to cut costs. Wedding Report Inc. tracks trends in the wedding industry, and as of August, the No. 1 trend is couples interested in cutting costs. "Ever......
Barbara and Bob Buchanan: Companions on the artists' way
Being an artist can often be a lonely profession. Sure, artists can meet folks and chat with them at receptions and galleries, but when it comes to the work, they are often pouring their paint and their souls onto the canvas in isolation. But not Barbara and Bob Buchanan. The marri......
Single file
In the movie classic "Grand Hotel," Greta Garbo intoned her most famous line: "I vant to be alone." Whether the screen legend felt that way in real life is debatable — "I want to be left alone," the never-married Garbo once clarified — but her ......
Club wed: Couples Webcast nuptials
(AP)John Roehsler took his wedding vows, exchanged rings with his bride — and turned to the Webcam. "Whoever's watching ... we're sorry that you couldn't be here," the groom says. "But you are here, so that's great. The 21st century rocks." Roehsle......
At gay weddings, traditions remain strong pull
(AP)Who may now kiss the bride when there are two grooms? Since the state of California began issuing marriage certificates to same-sex couples earlier this month, questions about wedding rituals and etiquette — not just politics — have grown faster than a wedding reception guest li......
Couple weds at place they hold dear
When Frank Adamson and Tonya Taylor were pronounced man and wife on Friday at Arch Street Center, the audience erupted into applause.The newlyweds strolled down the aisle smiling widely and greeting members of the center, who have become like family to them.So much in fact, they cou......
LIFE APPARENT: 15 years of life according to Joe
Fifteen years ago this month, my column first appeared in the New Era. I had just turned 24 and was still living with my parents when I approached the editor of the Magazine section with an idea for a column. She talked with me about it at length and asked me write a few samples, which she pass......
Wedding gifts that keep on giving
Shawn and Lydia Ramer Hunter wanted their wedding guests' presence — not necessarily their presents. Instead of gifts, the Lancaster couple asked guests at their 2007 nuptials to give donations to charities, including Oxfam and the Mennonite Central Committee. "(We) think gi......
Caring Singles
Caring Singles helped Patty Bouder-Miller to become, well, unsingle. Which technically makes Patty, 74, and her husband, Donald L. Miller, 77, ex-members of the club. But they were welcome to join the festivities recently when Caring Singles, a nonreligious, nonprofit support group for single, ......
State Senate tables marriage bill
State Sen. Mike Brubaker's marriage amendment bill is dead — at least for now.The controversial bill that calls for an amendment to the state's constitution defining marriage as being between a man and a woman was tabled indefinitely by the state Senate Tuesday, before that b......
Panel OKs measure to ban same-sex unions
The state Senate is poised to vote today on a proposed amendment to the state Constitution that would exclusively define marriage as a union between a man and a woman.The Senate Appropriations Committee, chaired by Republican state Sen. Gibson Armstrong of Refton, passed the proposed amend......
Pitts adds name to illegal immigrant bill
U.S. Rep. Joe Pitts, a Chester County Republican who represents Lancaster, has signed on as a co-sponsor for a new bill aimed at illegal immigration.House Bill 5761 would cut off aid to countries that refuse to repatriate their citizens who come to the United States, commit a crime and ser......
Marriage measure splits crowd
The state Senate Appropriations Committee hosted a contentious meeting Tuesday morning as advocates and opponents fought over a proposed constitutional ban on same-sex marriages.The amendment, authored by Sen. Michael W. Brubaker, a Lititz-area Republican, recognizes only man-woman unions ......
Seminary chief: Same-sex union ban a 'step back'
Civil-rights attorneys, theologians and moms and dads on both sides of the gay-marriage debate clashed again in Harrisburg today as a state Senate panel heard a third round of testimony on a proposal to ban same-sex unions in the constitution. "Clearly, what is proposed in Senate Bill 1250......
Talking to Sen. Brubaker about gay marriage
The week after state Sen. Mike Brubaker introduced legislation to limit marriage in Pennsylvania to unions of one man and one woman, he spoke to elementary school students about the importance of tolerance and acceptance of differences.Some might see irony there, but Brubaker doesn't....
Rally opposes 'marriage protection'
Those who oppose the "Marriage Protection Amendment" (Senate Bill 1250) will be given a chance to voice their concerns Sunday at a special rally.The main focus of the event is to urge elected officials to vote no on SB 1250.The rally will feature red postcards bearing the ......
The curious rush to ban gay marriage
Speed should not be of the essence when contemplating a change to the constitution, the bedrock of principles upon which a democracy is built.Yet the Republican-controlled state Senate, known for dragging its feet on festering problems Pennsylvanians want fixed — from burdensome prop......
Marriage amendment gets 1st hearing
State Sen. Michael W. Brubaker's proposed constitutional amendment defining marriage as being between one man and one woman got its first hearing before lawmakers on Monday. And it was a lively one. A trio of Brubaker's fellow Senators raised questions about the proposal — from its p......
Countians travel to back gay-marriage ban
Hearings in Harrisburg today on a proposed state constitutional amendment that would ban gay marriage attracted at least one busload of supporters who made the trip from Lancaster to the state capital. But the amendment itself faces a much longer, tougher road. Sen. Mike Brubaker, a Republ......
Church closes sexuality 'loophole'
Last month, the highest court in the Presbyterian Church (USA) reaffirmed the church's stance that clergy and candidates for clergy cannot have sex unless they are in a heterosexual marriage.Local Presbyterian clergy generally agreed that the court's ruling — the latest ......
Let's ban the political speak, Sen. Brubaker
In proposing a constitutional ban on gay marriage, can we take state Sen. Mike Brubaker at his word?On a recent radio program, Brubaker, a Republican from Warwick Township, said that although he is sponsoring a bill to make sure gays can't marry, he has "no negative feeling" ......
With pens in hand
Barry Russell has a past and a present with state Sen. Mike Brubaker —and a future yet to be written.Russell, the co-director of Rainbow Rose Community, a local human-rights group dealing with lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues, and Brubaker attended high school together a......
Fly tier is tying the knot
It took a trip to New Jersey last month to find that life works in mysterious ways, and that interesting stories are where you find them. At a fly-tying show in Somerset, N.J., I spoke with Don Bastian, a 55-year-old professional fly tier, author, lecturer and fly-tying and fly-fishing instruct......
Be passionate about religion coverage
If you are a citizen who votes their conscience and their faith, you may justifiably feel misunderstood and often ignored by the mainstream media — whatever your brand of belief.Not that the "religious" or "values" voters are being ignored in this election season ......
So much for bliss … Suits target ruling on who's suited to perform marriages
When a York County judge ruled in September that a marriage was invalid because it was performed by a minister who obtained his ordination over the Internet, it sent shock waves across the state.In the ruling, the judge said ministers who don't have an established congregation cannot p......
Happy Valentines for 60 years
Walking around the historic Gettysburg battlefield, a teenage Ruth Hurst looked at the other tourists and exclaimed to her husband of less than 24 hours, "Boy, if these people knew we came here for our honeymoon, they'd think we were crazy!" Smiling at the story now, her husband, ......
The state of Harrisburg and other musings
How bizarre are things in Harrisburg? Quite.Last month, Republicans lined up in support of a plan would eliminate school property taxes for senior homeowners earning $40,000 or less, and Democrats cried "foul" because the plan left out every other homeowner.Then last week,......
Sen. proposes Pa. ban on gay marriage
State Sen. Mike Brubaker this week proposed a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage in Pennsylvania, a move that is destined to resurrect a bitter legislative debate that stalled in 2006. The Warwick Township Republican, the second Lancaster County lawmaker to introduce such a proposal ......
Brubaker seeks ban on gay marriage
State Sen. Michael Brubaker is poised to introduce legislation that would write a ban on gay marriage into the state Constitution, the Intelligencer Journal has learned.According to various sources, the Warwick Township Republican is shopping for co-sponsors to attach their names to the le......
The 'Big D'
Editor's note: Because of the sensitive nature of the following story, the Sunday News is honoring the request of some of the individuals who were interviewed for this feature to identify them by first names only.

Jennifer was 27, married and expecting her first child when s......
Businessman seeks state Senate seat
A local businessman has entered the Republican race to replace retiring state Sen. Gibson Armstrong, making it a three-way contest.Bill Neff, 54, owner of Neff's Safe, Lock & Security Inc. in Lancaster city, cited campaign finance reform, school vouchers and the defense of traditio......
Giving thanks for TV
Thanksgiving celebrates the two things for which I am most grateful: a healthy family and a healthy appetite. But as the turkey gravy once again begins to flow, and I prepare to test anew the limits of my arteries, something else clamors for attention in my thoughts. As much as it pains me to s......
Senate race takes a turn
A Montgomery County attorney wants to influence the outcome of next year's state Senate race in Lancaster County by supporting Steve McDonald, and his first action is to try to keep a current legislator out of the contest.Bob Guzzardi, a controversial figure who once owned a gym that attra......
Grieving for a departing shepherd
Sometimes the decisions of prelates in high places have reverberations for individuals they most likely do not intend and cannot anticipate.Such is the case with the deliberations of the Episcopal Church's House of Bishops that concluded Tuesday — the culmination of a process tha......
Getting divorced? Joint or separate returns?
Your marital status on December 31 determines your filing status for the entire preceding year. If you are still married on December 31, you have a choice. You can file jointly with your soon-to-be ex-spouse or file using married filing separately status. You might qualify to file as Head of Hous......
IT'S ALL RELATIVE: On good terms with historic marriage verbiage
Evidence of your ancestors' marriage will be found in a variety of records that you encounter as a family historian, and the terminology and marriage customs you find may be bewildering. Some of the terms and practices that researchers have asked me to explain are described here. As a genealogi......
Same-sex ceremony vs. N.J. camp meeting
Now that same-sex civil unions are legal in New Jersey, should two women be allowed to hold a civil union ceremony at a popular seaside camp meeting association if the association doesn't want them to? Randall Wenger, of Rothsville, chief council of the Harrisburg-based Independence Law ......
A taxing problem put before Rep. Boyd
State Rep. Scott Boyd's going to think I'm picking on him.Last year, I was on his case for pushing a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage in Pennsylvania.Why he wants to tell law-abiding, tax-paying committed couples they are not welcome here escapes me.Now I&......
Local former UCC churches issue statements on split
Two of the three local United Church of Christ congregations that voted to disassociate from the denomination late last year have issued statements regarding their votes.The former Swamp United Church of Christ of Reinholds said in its statement, released Wednesday, that the General Synod ......
Forum tonight on defining marriage
The amendment’s passage is far from assured — it has drawn heated opposition from groups who claim it would discriminate against homosexuals.

Furthermore, the state House’s new Democratic majority could prevent the measure from ever reaching the floor.

None of the party’s state l...
Critics of same-sex marriage set seminar
And since “it’s not a far-fetched notion to see that happen someday in Pennsylvania,” Michael Geer said today, those who are concerned about legalized same-sex marriage here need to see how to prepare themselves. Geer, president of the Pennsylvania Family Institute, and state Rep. Scott Boyd have......
Hornbergers mark 65 years of marriage

The Hornbergers were married on June 21, 1941 at Trinity Evangelical Congregational Church, Lititz, by the late Dr. L. Clarence Hunt.

William retired in December 1982 from the First Columbia Bank and Trust Company, Bloomsburg, where he served as vice president and trust officer. Charlotte...
Nelson and Stella Manning celebrate 70 years of marriage

The party was hosted by the couple’s children.

Nelson and Stella were married on April 12, 1936 in the Cresswell Evangelical Congregational Church by the late Rev. Earl D. Ehrig.

Nelson is the former owner of Manning’s Sporting Goods in Columbia and is retired from the Warwick Scho...
Boyd seeks ban on gay marriages
Lawmakers and gay-rights advocates fired opening salvos Tuesday in a battle over how marriage should be defined in Pennsylvania's constitution.

Legislators led by state Rep. Scott Boyd, a Lampeter Republican, introduced a House bill to begin amending the the state constitution so it w...
Carpenter-Wong unite in marriage
The groom graduated from Ephrata High School in 1997. He has a B.A. in sociology from East Stroudsburg University. He also has as associates degree from Air Force Community College in criminal justice. He will complete his master’s degree in homeland security from American Military University in May...
the marriage of Sound & Color
The dialogue is called "The Color of Sound," and gallery owner Ellen Slupe's intent is to engage the musicians, the artists and the audience in discussion, sharing what is seen, heard -- and more.

Rebecca Rast, a violinist with 10 years of training at age 15, walks past the gallery several ti...
Burkholders celebrate 50 years of marriage
They are the parents of Carolyn, married to Roger North and Jon, married to Karen Vaselaros, both of Lititz, and Ken, married to Karen Frankenfield of Dublin. Roy and Helen have been blessed with eight grandchildren.

Roy is a former Manheim Township High School history instructor, teaching fr...
Kurtz-Hines unite in marriage
Organist was Linda Lippicott. Vocal soloist was Kevin Kurtz and instrumental soloist was Dale Weller.

Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a satin ballroom gown with full skirt and detailed beading of pearls. It featured an elegant off-the-shoulder neckline and a 10-foot train. She...
Erbs celebrate 60 years of marriage
Loretta, the former Loretta Kulp, attended Lancaster Business College and worked for various enterprises, including Old Guard Insurance Company, Paul Cassel, M.D., Steffy Buick and the Lincoln Auto Auction.

The Erbs have resided in Lititz for more than 50 years and have three children, Kirby,...
Keeping the commitment
“Most of the kids who are coming have already made a commitment to sexual abstinence,” explains Mrs. Gresh, who along with her husband is hosting the Pure Freedom Conference, which began Friday and continued today at Lancaster Evangelical Free Church. “We want to teach them the skills they’ll need t...
THEN AND NOW/ Ben and Betsy Fisher: For a happy marriage, just give
“We met when we were both vacationing in Florida,” says Betsy. “He just asked me out on a date, and we started dating from there.” The couple found they had a lot in common, including their Amish faith and Lancaster County roots. They also had chemistry, Betsy recalls. “I thought he was very h......
Betting high in a 50-50 marriage
Having wrecked Phyllis’s car, and with no money to buy her another one, a proposal seemed like the best way out. The joke, however, may have been on him. “He is still paying,” Phyllis says with a smile. Upon stepping into the Jenkinses’ Silver Spring-area home, one cannot help but notice th......
The duty of marriage
In the most extreme cases, spouses are expected to stay together even if one’s life is in danger.

A conservative Mennonite bishop cited a case where a Mennonite woman killed her husband. The husband had stayed with his wife, even though she had made several attempts on his life before she suc...
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The duty of marriage

In the most extreme cases, spouses are expected to stay together even if one’s life is in danger.

A conservative Mennonite bishop cited a case where a Mennonite woman killed her husband. The husband had stayed with his wife, even though she had made several attempts on his life befo......
Bush calls for amendment to ban marriage of gays
Bush announced his support for the constitutional amendment submitted by Republican Rep. Marilyn Musgrave of Colorado in order to end "growing confusion" that has arisen from a court decision in Massachusetts and a decision by San Francisco officials to allow same-sex marriages.
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Couple: Do background check prior to marriage

If Beatrice Saam had known her fiance had a history of domestic violence, she'd have thought twice before making vows to love, honor and cherish.

Now, Christopher Saam and his wife, Beatrice, are working to ensure that no one makes the same mistake she made in her previous marriage......
YES! With her class watching, Leola teacher accepts marriage proposal

""Miss Borst, I love you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you,'' an emotional Grenier said, slipping a diamond ring on her finger. ""Will you marry me?'' He looked at the enthusiastic group of half-pints, who were sitting on the floor at her feet.

""One, two three,'' he coache...
Life in wartime includes marriage for young couple
As soon as U.S. Army Specialist Michael Eugene Fink Jr. learned he would be getting two weeks' leave from Camp Dogwood in Iraq, he made a quick call to his mother.

The 25-year-old asked, "Mom, how do you get married in Pennsylvania with only a few days' notice?"

His mother, B......