No one said the woman "asked" for it. You are reading way too much into what was said. Lysol and I simply said that women need to look out for themselves and not put themselves into bad situations.

For instance: If you had a daughter, what would you teach her? Would you tell her it's okay to go out alone at any time of night or would you teach her to go with a group and not be out late? Would you teach her to walk down well lit streets or would dark alleys be okay with you? Teaching girls good safety habits will lessen the chances of being raped. That is ALL Lysol and I were trying to say.

Are you kidding me Lysol? That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. So this woman was asking for it - if alcohol was involved OR if there were no other women around? Why should anyone think that - in ANY situation - that "this sort of thing could happen"?

Ridiculous - terrible arguement.

That being said - no one should jump to the conclusion that a rape/sexual assult did happen. Did we learn absolutely nothing from the Duke Lacross debacle?

It still sounds a lot like the old "boys will be boys" line. I agree that ALL parents should teach their children how to act in situations like these which includes teaching young men to not put themselves in situtations where they could be accused of a sexual assualt.

I agree that ALL parents should teach their children how to act in situations like these which includes teaching young men to not put themselves in situtations where they could be accused of a sexual assualt.