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Find me a woman who died of prostate cancer and I'll find you a man who murdered because he had postpartum psychosis.
Bad analogy. Women don't have prostates, but both men and women have brains.
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Men and women ARE different. I would be willing to bet that you would be sympathetic to a man who was a soldier in Iraq, went through several close calls with IEDs and had to clean up slaughtered innocents, and then returned to the US and was put in a long waiting line at the VA for severe psychological problems that were triggered by his time in Iraq... who then went on to harming others.
Sure, men and women are different, but only when it's convenient to note the difference. The issue isn't whether I would be sympathetic to such a man, but whether the law would be, and I think we can agree that it wouldn't. The root of the problem is that when a woman sends her children into a lake strapped into a baby seat in a car, or drowns her 5 kids in a bathtub, or sticks a baby in a microwave oven, there's always an acronym for it and she's considered the victim and deserves all our sympathy when she hits the talk show circuit. When a man does it, he's a ruthless monster who deserves a slow, painful death.
There are plenty of other double standards when it comes to accountability. Take for instance alcohol and sex. If the woman is drunk and she later regrets the act, it's considered rape. If the man is drunk as well, he doesn't get a free pass. The law won't hold a woman accountable for giving the green light while she's intoxicated, but it will hold the man accountable for acting on the green light, despite the fact that he's drunk as well. Hell, if he regrets the act, do you suppose he can claim she took advantage of him and charge the woman with rape? Yes, it sounds ridiculous when you turn the tables.