QUOTE(PSU1985 @ May 21 2008, 11:07 AM)
This is ridiculous. This man faces life in prison because he had a consensual sexual relationship. I agree that children can be taken advantage of and they are impressionable. However, this girl was 15 years old and certainly no longer a child. She knew what she was doing. Girls are starting sexual relationships very young these days. Have you seen the McCaskey childcare area? It's overflowing with students' children. She probably only came forward in 2007 out of spite. She was probably mad that he got married and didn't want anything to do with her anymore. Or she tried to blackmail him and it didn't work. I absolutely agree that what he did was wrong. He should have known better. But he doesn't deserve life in prison for having consensual sex. His life is now ruined and the now 17 year old girl looks like a victim. She is NOT a victim.
Thank you PSU:
This is just another example where the law has yet to catch up with society. Kids now-a-days are not the little innocent beings we once were (or thought we were). Times have changed. I'm a set to believe that this situation was compromised in a huge way...how are the police so blind on all accounts? I'm not saying that this is a setup or that they didn't have sexual relations...I wasn't there so who knows except the 2 people involved. I just want to see a bit more accountability from the youngins...if they're so quick to grow up and drop their pants...why not treat them like the adults they so long to be? Life Lesson Numero Uno: In a relationship you're going to get hurt...don't be vindictive and attempt to ruin the other persons life (in said case this clearly happened). I just makes me think back to all those movies where the "innocent little tween" starts to date an older guy, gets hurt, and ruins his life in one way or another. I saw a certain chem teacher get removed from teaching for "accusations" set forth by a girl in my class. Malarkey!
My favorite part of the above quote:
"Have you seen the McCaskey childcare area? It's overflowing with students' children."
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This was happening while I was in high school and from what i've seen and heard it's not getting any better. Trend? Fad? Reality? Take it as you will...I don't think that situation's going anywhere anytime soon and it should be addressed.
Enough digression. The reason I write is because I knew this guy for a few years and he was the nicest person ever. Not the aforementioned gang-banging-wanna-be-thug person that you all have so kindly labeled him as. Do I agree with what he did?! H3LLLLLLLL NO!!! The one thing you are all right about is that he should have known better. End of story. Do I agree with the charges?! H3LLLLLL NO!!! I don't believe this is a potential life imprisonment type situation.
Overall...this entire situation is just sad. And in actuality I do feel bad for all involved. Do I feel bad for the young girl....certainly. She now has learned a life lesson at a young age that some people don't learn until almost out of high school. If my post sounds a bit contradictory and conflicted it's because I am; and largely i'm playing devils advocate because I knew Norman. If it were my daughter that this happened to...i'd most likely be screaming bloody murder.
P.S. I love how this syndication runs a story on the following day about the same choir and fails to mention any of these accounts:
http://articles.lancasteronline.com/local/4/221780Also, for those who mentioned about band/choir members being close to their leaders and peers is so true...it's even mentioned by one of the students in that article.
Thank you for letting me rant...and I hope I don't get flammed too badly. But hey...we all have our opinions.