really RH, Ben has spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on a custody case? Is that what the firm Longo & Longo charge to represent a parent in a custody case? That's outrageous! Or could it be he spent alot of that paying a firm to help write the lawsuits against Calvary Church and some of its members hoping to hit the jackpot? All were thrown out due to no merit weren't they? I know one of those good people. Her ex husband confronted Ben asking why are you suing my ex, all she did was talk to Wendy on the phone?. Ben's response(paraphrase} If she wants to play, she's gotta pay! What kind of person would do something so evil. By the way Ron, I saw the video from the police station when it was first posted uncut. Before it was ordered taken down. A friend watched it with me and we both clearly saw a butt to the chest/shoulder area that was completely uncalled for and downright rude. Was that shown in the courtroom or was there an edited version? I don't agree with how the police responded. The removing of the child from Ben's care that night I think was or could be traumatizing to the child. But if that's by the book, then the anger and complaints should be directed at how the system works, not at the mother who was I suspect doing what she was told by the police!!! I agree with groundpounder, they both need to forgive all past real or percieved transgressions and PUT THE CHILD'S HAPPINESS FIRST!