QUOTE (dee @ Dec 23 2008, 04:55 PM)
LDB, I have a child and I have a boyfriend. Your judgement above said that it is probable that my child will be abused by my boyfriend. Many problems with that assumption. Number one, less that 8% of the abuse cases of children are caused by the boyfriend/girlfriend of a biological parent. It is 90% more likely that abuse would happen at the hands of a biological parent. Second, I am a widow and I have a boyfriend who is no more likely to abuse my chid than his biological father would have. Please keep your judgmental statements to a lower level of craziness. Obviously, this woman is an unfit mother. No way she didn't notice that her child was being abused (and this certainly was not the only incident), she should be in jail too. However, throwing me in with her as the same kind of mother, made me need to defend myself. Use common sense and place blame where blame is due, with THIS unfit mother.
She should be put in jail, immediately. That child can come live with me as I would be sure no man was ever put before my child's safety.
I don't think the mother should be put in jail immediately. She is a good mother!!! Everyone that comments about her obviously doesn't know her. I do. And i know that little boy. I have been around the baby since he was born. I am tired of people accusing the mother of being UNFIT. You should keep the blame of that low life who hurt this poor boy.