QUOTE (ltzsnglmomma @ May 15 2009, 01:39 PM)
I don't buy it for 2 seconds! I've got one of those 'deadbeat' dads...picked a real winner for my daughter!! I'm owed over 60K in child support....but regardless..or maybe even IN SPITE of that, I'm a home owner, manager, and good MOM that doesn't get any assistance other than CHIPS for my kid. I recieved $420 in food stamps when I lost my job...for ONE MONTH of food for 2 people? I never got on welfare b/c I was employed again before my appointment date. I don't agree with welfare and their practices - who needs $420 in food for a family of 2 in one month? I spend about $200-$250 a month - that's tax money that could go to something else. I'll get off my soap box...but my point is...there is no reason that people need to sit on welfare for years at a time and just rack up babies and checks! Do something for yourself....you'll feel a whole lot better about yourself in the process! Idk, maybe i was just brought up 'old school'.
I agree! I'm also a single mom with one of those fathers for my child. I have always worked to take care of her. I only went for child support when I had to in order to get subsidized daycare for my child. I was awarded a whole $6.28 every other week and he couldn't even pay that (and no that decimal point is not in the wrong spot!!). I had her on CHIP for awhile but not anymore. I've never been on food stamps (and hope I never lose my job and have to use them until finding something new) and 4 years ago I was able to become a homeowner. I get irritated when I see women sitting around popping out babies left and right to different fathers and being content to wait for a welfare check to take care them. Get up and get a job and show some pride in yourself! What are you teaching your kids?!?