QUOTE (crazycatwoman @ Jul 22 2009, 08:29 PM)
I actually did see one troubled young girl go into the military about 2 years ago, and you'd never know she had issues, to look at her now. My comment wasn't meant to discard the girl in the military so society doesn't have to deal with her. It was meant that she needs some serious structure and discipline in her life, and the military can do that for people. I've heard alot about this family, and I assure you, there is no structure there.
I was "knee-jerk" responding, I didn't think you were trying to dispose of her.
I too have seen many turn-arounds - myself included. Some of the kids I grew up with and went to school with are dead, in the gutter or in jail. I've been none of those thus far - although dead is disputible at times.